Unqualified With J. Harvey: Could Be A Hate-F*cking Incident

Hey kids. This week we have a love problem. This chick Rachael treated her man like dookie, and now he’s gun-shy around her and she realized she might love his ass. That’s a tough one. Keep reading. Be warned, she just launches into it!

ok well i was with this man his name is jimmy for about four years on and off. this relationship started when i was about 15 and i am now 19. when i was 18 i moved away to go to college and we stayed together at first but i was kind of crazy and like wanted to go out and experience my new freedom so things didnt work out. as of right now we are not together. i am still in love with him, i dont know if he is the right one for me or if i just still like him because hes so familiar but his feelings are not the same. throughout our reltationship he was totally in love with me he chased me for like a year and we were friends for a while before we got together and since he was so in love with me i never thought he would leave me, so i didnt exactly treat him that great, and so now that were not together he like he says he doesnt feel the same way about me because i treated him so bad in the past. i dont know what to do like there are alot of other guys i could be with but im scared to get close to another guy again and like when i go back to visit my parents i see him sometimes and weve hooked up since weve been broken up and i know he thinks im hot and stuff i just dont know if i can get him back emotionally. so im just asking basically if i should continue living like this just waiting for him to realize or if i should just move on. i have dated casually a few other guys but nothing this deep.

Rachael

In my head, I could literally hear her jabbering that at me without pausing for a breath. Slow down on the Red Bulls, chica! This is a tough one because I’m thinking you’re sorta at fault since I read you treated him all wrong. But people learn. Keep reading.

This is a tough one. Firstly, I have some questions. What does this person do? I’m dying to know. Work for Oxfam? Can I have her frequent flyer miles in payment for the advice? Bitch sounds like she gets around the globe. Anyway, keep reading for some tips to help her out.